Labels like “alcoholic,” “sober,” and “recovery” can feel loaded. Defining the real goal could be the missing piece for so many Christian men and women who feel stuck in the alcohol loop… This is not ultimately about sobriety. It’s about Jesus.

In this episode, Christy sits down with Jonathon M. Seidl, author of Confessions of a Christian Alcoholic, to unpack why breaking free from alcohol isn’t ultimately about sobriety; it’s about Jesus, identity, and true transformation.

Jon shares his honest story, including the moment that exposed what was really going on beneath the surface, and the words from his wife that changed everything. 

Together, we challenge the language, labels, and assumptions many Christians carry around drinking, recovery, and what it actually means to live free.

This episode is honest, stretching, and deeply freeing for the woman who feels stuck trying to “fix” herself instead of surrendering.

If you’ve ever thought…
“I’m trying so hard, why won’t God just take this away?”
“I don’t want to admit I’m struggling… I’m a Christian.”
“I feel stuck between faith and my habits.”

Babe, this episode will meet you right there 🩷

What You’ll Learn In This Episode

• Why Jon uses the word “alcoholic” as a descriptor—not an identity

• The difference between focusing on sobriety vs focusing on Jesus

• How Scripture models honesty about the past without shame-based identity

• Why ignoring conviction keeps you stuck (and what to do instead)

• What’s actually on the other side of obedience: peace, joy, and freedom

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